10 Reasons to NOT Use Your Dishwasher

by Joshua on July 19, 2011

The following post is from Joshua of Becoming Minimalist:

source: qmnonic

In November of last year, I made a bold decision.

I stopped using my dishwasher.

It may not sound like a bold decision to you (especially if you live without one), but to my family of four, it felt bold at the time.

You see, I always used a dishwasher. In fact, nearly every day of my life I have used a dishwasher. My parents used one. My grandparents used one. It’s been in every home I have lived in…. and when it wasn’t available (broken or kitchen remodelings), it was a source of great stress. Dishwashers get loaded, started, and emptied. End of story. Or so I thought.

The decision to start washing my dishes by hand was begun as just an experiment based on this zen story of washing your bowl that I decided to apply literally. It was a practice in mindfulness that was intended to last 1 month… that was 8 months ago.

The experiment became my life.

Today, we wash all of our dishes in the sink immediately following every meal.

Since transitioning to handwashing our dishes, we have seen a number of benefits to the practice:

1. Less Physical Clutter.

How often were dirty plates, bowls, and glassware left on my kitchen counter following a meal just waiting to be loaded in the dishwasher? Far more often than I would like to admit, that’s for sure. Each time, physical clutter was left on my kitchen counter, table, and sink.

2. Less Mental Clutter.

An unfinished project clutters the mind… always. Even when we were not in the kitchen, the pending responsibility of needing to clean the dishes was always hanging over our evening events. And we were specifically reminded every time we walked into (or even past) our kitchen.

3. Less Bacteria in Your Kitchen.

Dried food (on plates and surfaces) becomes a safe haven for bacteria. Eliminate them from your kitchen by not allowing them to gather in the first place.

4. Seamlessly Transition Between Activities.

Once the mind clutter of dirty dishes has been removed, we are freed to move from activity to activity, event to event, and room to room. We are allowed to be fully engaged in the present… however we choose to spend our evenings. There is no need to return to the past and finish the duties of our meal.

5. Dishes are Always Clean.

Ever need that one mixing bowl, pot, or cooking utensil, only to find out that it’s still dirty sitting in the dishwasher? Yeah, me too. Washing dishes after every meal means the dishes and cooking utensils are always clean and in their drawer.

6. Dishes get Cleaner.

Perhaps, the age of my built-in dishwasher has something to do with it, but I always hated pulling a bowl or plate out of the dishwasher that wasn’t all the way clean. And now I never do. Dishes are cleaned fully, everytime.

7. Wake up to a Clean Kitchen.

I hate walking into a dirty kitchen first thing in the morning. In the mornings when time is a premium, a dirty kitchen starts my day on the wrong foot… and in the wrong frame of mind as my first thought is almost always to blame my wife for not cleaning the kitchen the night prior. This inconvenience of dirty dishes and counters in the morning has almost been completely removed from our household.

8. It Takes Less Time.

It came as a surprise, but I truly believe that washing our dishes after every meal has taken less time than loading/running/unloading the dishwasher. After most meals, it takes only 2-3 minutes to handwash each item. Cups are a snap. And most plates are a breeze to clean immediately following a meal.

9. Example for My Kids.

My kids (9 & 5 years old) see parents who finish what they start, aren’t afraid to put in a little effort, and leave a room cleaner than they found it. And those are life disciplines that I hope they embrace every day of their lives as they get older.

10. It Brings Personal Satisfaction.

There is a level of satisfaction in life that accompanies working with our hands and accomplishing a task without the need for mechanical intervention. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not against machines. In many ways, they allow us to accomplish and create more than we could without them. I’m just saying there is a simple satisfaction in reminding ourselves that we can still live joyfully without them.

To accomplish the task of washing dishes immediately after every meal, I use three items: a dish wand, a sink rack, and a towel. I wash, dry, and put away. The counters are wiped down when it is appropriate to do so. And with every practice in life, I own it – not the other way around. When we entertain or have a large meal that uses a number of cooking pots and pans, we still use the dishwasher.

It’s been a practical step of living intentionally. It’s been a process of choosing to question my life assumptions and live mindfully in all facets. In that way, maybe it’s more than I just never gave it an opportunity… maybe it’s more honest to say that I never chose to live intentionally and mindfully.

And maybe the 30-day experiment would work in your home as well…

Do you think you could go without your dishwasher for 30 days?

Joshua Becker inspires and encourages others to live with less on his blog, Becoming Minimalist. He has also authored two e-books, Simplify and Inside-Out Simplicity. But more importantly, he loves his wife and two small children.

  • http://twitter.com/AmyLNorton Amy L Norton

    I agree that it takes less time to hand wash dishes. My girls LOVE washing dishes, but do not enjoy messing with the dishwasher. I, too, dislike the dishwasher business… which is why my husband does the dishes in our home! Unless we have (like you said) a large meal, he tends to hand wash most of our dishes; it just makes more sense.

  • http://5dsandme.wordpress.com/ Amy D.

    I could certainly go without my dishwasher for 30 days! It has actually been 105 days since my dishwasher went kaput and flooded my entire kitchen. So for 105 days, no dishwasher, no floor, and I couldnt’ be happier. In fact, we were sick for months and months and months. Since I started washing dishes by hands, not one of us has been sick. It could be the season change or it cold be because the repair guy told us our dishwasher couldn’t have possibly been CLEANING anything. 

    In face, today…. I am putting storage shelves where the dishwasher used to be. ;-)  

  • http://dinamarie.typepad.com/deafbusybee/ Dina Marie

    Could I go without my dishwasher for 30 days?  I say… nope.  Why?  I as a single mother and have lot of things on my plate to take care of.  I prefer to continue by using my dishwasher.  It was interesting to hear your perspective on this topic.

  • Tabatha

    We do use our dishwasher just because I absolutely loathe doing the dishes.  There are a few things here and there we can’t put in the dishwasher in fear it will melt but other than that I’m not sure I could possibly live without my dishwasher!  (I mean I would if I had to, but you get the picture)  In my house, there is actually more clutter in my kitchen without the use of the dishwasher just because of how much I hate doing the dishes, they end up sitting in the sink until I drag myself to do them.  Having the dishwasher allows me to tuck them away and have less clutter on my counter and sink.  Guess it depends on how you look at it!  I love how you did an experiment and learned a great lesson but for me, I’ll stick to using my dishwasher!   :-)

  • JoyM25

    I just replaced my dishwasher after being without for about 3 weeks.  My kids (18,21 & 23- young adults) rinse their dishes and place directly into dishwasher!
    I clean up dinner dishes and program to run while I am sleeping.  The dishes are put away in the morning. The kitchen stays clean, no dirty dishes to look at ever! This works for my family.

  • http://overcomingbusy.com/ OvercomingBusy

    Joshua- You know I’m a fan, but seriously…can’t go with ya on this one! Just thinking about having to wash my dishes everyday by hand stresses me out! (Although I do wash them several days a week by hand, because sometimes it just easier) But, I like having the option of putting the dishes in, close the door, walk away and the next morning – clean dishes! It’s like a little miracle to start my day! lol!

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1497762910 Joann Podhurcak O’Neil

    Thought-provoking post.  Our dishwashers have been a problem for over 16 years in our home.  We’ve had several models. 

    This would certainly solve some problems we have with people not doing their part of the meal cleanup because they have to wait for others to finish…we’d all be in it together.  It would take all of us to clean up, for sure.  I’m thinking short, wide glasses would be a good investment instead of the tall ones.  We already have smaller glasses for the youngest kiddos.  Hmmmm.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Katie-Fitzpatrick-Gonzalez/669943480 Katie Fitzpatrick Gonzalez

    Wow – I can’t fathom not using my dishwasher! I cook a lot and when I cook I cook for an army – even tho there’s only two of us, so we can feast on leftovers throughout the week. 

    Also, it is much more economical to use the dishwasher, handwashing wastes gallons of fresh, clean water every time – dishwashing is more efficient – therefore more economical. 

    And it can be done while sleeping. I’d much rather have to put clean dishes away in the morning then wake up to a messy kitchen because I was too exhausted to wash the dishes the night before! 

    I am so thankful my husband finally installed the dishwasher about 6 months ago – it has made my life MUCH less stressful! 

    But – neat story! :)

  • Andrew

    I couldn’t disagree more.  Washing dishes by hand takes longer and because my wife and I hate doing it they often get cluttered anyways.  Also it is a common misconception that this saves water.  I know you didn’t mention that as a reason though.  We have not had a dishwasher for the last year and can’t wait to move to somewhere that we will have one.

  • Angel Reuther

    I’ve thought about it now that they have removed the phosphates from the dishwasher detergent.  My dishes are coming out horrible and I’m getting very tired of it, so it has crossed my mind.

  • mom2childs

    I haven’t used a dishwasher in about 10 years. Have one. Don’t use it. We store extra pots and pans in there.

  • Dee

    but do you get your dishes sanitized? Dishwashers get the water much hotter than most human hands can stand.

    • Roozter

      You’re kidding, right? Humans have survived for a very long time handwashing dishes – even without modern soap. If in doubt, use an antibacterial dish soap or diluted bleach. 

  • Nt12mny

    I don’t use my dishwasher much either. My husband doesn’t think it gets them clean enough and that’s probably true but depends on what’s ON the dishes and the fact that ours is probably the lowest quality dishwasher on the market! LOL! However, I have also found that I prefer to wash by hand. Since I have back issues, I sit on a stool or chair to wash but it’s mindless task so I let my thoughts go and daydream while I do the chore. :)

  • http://www.se7en.org.za Se7en

    One of the first things folk say to us is: you must be so glad to have a dishwasher!!! Well finally we got one about two years ago and I just never got into the idea… it is supposed to save gallons of water and heaps of electricity… but you need to have more plates and you have to wait ages for a cycle to finish and to be honest with a family of ten we would really have to use it three times a day. It works so much better to clean as we go through the day. You are so right “finish something you start”… and the hours I have spent working along side my kids washing and drying will never be replaced by a machine… nothing gets kids to open up and talk about their lives like a sink of sudsy dishes!!! So we have one, we hardly use it… I prefer spending time with my kids.

  • Shane Wingerd

    I have only lived in 1 apartment in the last 22 years that had a dishwasher, so I am use to having to wash dishes by hand.  That 1 dishwasher was so terrible that I usually washed the dishes by hand anyway.   They never came clean unless every single speck of food was removed before hand, at which point, due to the amount of work in pre-cleaning, it actually saved time to just wash by hand. 

    Besides, flatware should never be cleaned in a dishwasher anyway and that goes double for pots and pans.  (no matter what the manufacturer tries to say) So, in essence, the only thing that ends up in the dishwasher are a couple of plates and a couple glasses. Seems kind of pointless.

  • http://fimby.tougas.net Renee @ FIMBY

    We did this for a season of our life and plan to return to that practice. WE just went through a move and right now we’re living with family so it’s not feasible but we liked it when we did it. I think one of the keys to making this work is owning fewer dishes.

    http://fimby.tougas.net/hand-washing-dishes

  • Davidtx1

    I have never had a dishwasher. When my husband and I were dating (we are late in years) I would invite him over for dinner (novel idea to not live together before marriage!) we would wash dishes together and use that time to talk and get to know each other. My sixteen year old daughter rinses dishes while one of us washes and it is the same thing, we use that time to continue our dinner conversation or bring up subjects she may be uncomfortable talking about, we are too busy to look at one another.  The only time I wish for a dishwasher is when all the family comes over but then we all help and keep on chatting!

  • http://livingthebalancedlife.com Bernice Wood

    When I had a houseful of kids, I don’t believe I could’ve done without a dishwasher. Now they are grown, and I still use it some, but tend to wash all the pots and pans by hand and only run DW every other day. I try to empty ASAP so we can load dirty into it.
    Will have to get used to the 2 cup, 2 plate, 2 bowl method before long, living in an RV hopefully!
    Bernice
    The successful woman’s guide to NOT doing it all

  • Sarah in GA

    we grew up without a dishwasher when everyone else had one. when we would complain my parents would say, “why would i go buy a dishwasher when i have 3 right here” (meaning us kids of course). i have lots of memories of good talks with my brothers while we did our nightly chore of dishwashing. i have 2 kids now and we use a dishwasher – mostly because they can easily rinse and put their own dishes in the dishwasher. we only have to run 1 cycle at night to get our whole days worth of dishes clean. it actually keeps the clutter off of my counter because i only do one big kitchen clean up per day – at the end of the day. maybe when my kids get old enough to wash the dishes we will get rid of the dishwasher! :-)

    • MrsH

      ha my parents said the exact same thing, and it actually kind of hurt my feelings.  I think it’s because while I have some happy memories of doing it, it generally was a huge source of conflict between my two siblings and I.  And breaking a dish was like the most stressful experience ever, with us strategizing for what felt like hours to determine who would get yelled at the least, and what reason we could give to further reduce yelling/punishment!  My family (also of 5) uses a dishwasher, and I agree with others: dishes go straight in after every meal.  At night I do those items that don’t go in (big items like pots and pans, wood items, etc).  When I don’t get to the dishwasher, I can’t say that I’d be any more likely to get the job done if I did it by hand.  Though I’m glad you found something that works for you, for now I’m going to stick with what works for us!

  • Anna

    No dishwasher here!  About 12 years ago, we were looking for a house to buy.  I wouldn’t even consider one that didn’t have a dishwasher already installed.  I thought it was essential.  Now living in a 3rd world country, I’m just happy to have electricity so I don’t have to wash dishes by kerosene lantern or candlelight.  But my husband and kids all pitch in, so I can’t really complain!

    I can also really relate to #7.  I’m not a morning person, and dirty dishes get me off to a bad start in the morning.  I like to start the day fresh.

  • pathic

    I think where you fall on this one really leans heavily on your history with dishes. I grew up in a house without a dishwasher. A family of 5 creates a lot of dishes. And often those dishes would sit on the counter waiting for someone to have the energy to wash them. Sometimes they would “soak” for too long resulting in a disgusting bouillabaisse of dishwater and food particles that had to be emptied before the dishes could be washed. I swore I would never suffer that as an adult. 

    And, until a few years ago, I made true on that promise to myself. We moved into an older home that did not have a dishwasher; I lasted a whole year without a dishwasher.  I felt like a slave to my kitchen. I would prepare a meal, eat a meal, clean up a meal, and then turn around and do it all again. Eventually, I became the queen of “stacking.” I would rinse dishes off and stack them for washing later. Unfortunately, the counter space available for waiting dishes was teeny. A year was long enough. I broke down and bought a portable dishwasher, one that has to be rolled over to my sink and connected to the faucet and plugged in. While it’s running I can’t use my kitchen sink and it takes up the bulk of my kitchen floor. But it was the best $500 I have ever spent. 
    My dishwasher means less clutter on my counter because it’s run at night and emptied in the morning. When we use a dish we put it in the dishwasher. I use 7th Generation Free & Clear DW detergent, which works great! The dishwasher uses WAY less water than hand-washing dishes, and I feel like the dishes are cleaner coming out of the dishwasher. 

    I appreciate the mindfulness of hand-washing dishes. But I choose to be mindful in the amount of dishes I use to prepare meals, so that the dishwasher is not crammed full, making it easier for it to do its job. :)

    • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_JGFTTFJCO6HHLPZ7SEL5MOJAEY Lynn

      Whereas I think Joshua makes some valid points that work for him and may not work for many others, I also agree with your assessment “I think where you fall on this one really leans heavily on your history with dishes”.

      As a life coach, I immediately noticed that Joshua wrote: “just waiting to be loaded in the dishwasher”. Therein lies the problem – each one not taking responsibility to load the dishwasher when they finish their meal.

      While there is nothing “wrong” with what Joshua gets out of it by handwashing, I know that it often seems easier to take the “high road” with zen thoughts rather than addressing the issue of “these are the new rules of co-habitating with others and doing your part to create harmony in the household”.

      I’m a zen thinker too, but I also know that I use it at times to avoid conflict. Again, not “bad” but it will leave things unresolved if used too frequently - unless one doesn’t mind carrying the brunt of the load… – pardon the pun :)

  • Michelle S.

    Because of my “green heart” I use the dishwasher. Environmentally it’s the better choice… HOWEVER, I have switched from putting big pots in there.  I now only wash daily dishes in the dishwasher and all pots (which were the clutter of our kitchen) get washed immediately after dinner. 

    So we have a “little bit of zen” going on here.  I couldn’t wash each dish by hand.  THAT would lead to major procrastination clutter here. ;)

  • Tammy L

    I’m 29 and had a dishwasher for the first time 2.5 years ago. I actually really like it (we’re a family of 6) and feel it saves me a lot of time and keeps the kitchen cleaner! I do like hand washing dishes (and washed tons, tons, TONS of dishes growing up as the oldest in a family of 8!) but I don’t attach moral significance to not using a dishwasher (#9). :)

    I run the dishwasher every night before bed and always wake up to a clean kitchen. :) If I had a tiny kitchen and/or there weren’t as many people in our family, I wouldn’t find a dishwasher as useful.

    I just know that instead of taking 60+ minutes to *quickly* wash the amount of dishes we’d have for a day, I can spend ~15 minutes loading the dishwasher and hand washing a few. LOVE that time savings!! :)

    • Ashley

      I agree with Tammy. I just got a dishwasher 6 months ago for the first time in my life and it has been wonderful! My kitchen is so much cleaner on a regular basis and I’ve even found that i’m cooking a lot more because the extra dishes don’t mean extra time at the sink. I guess it’s just one of those things that is going to be different for everybody :)

  • http://laborpainzsupport.blogspot.com/ Martha

    That is funny! All of those reasons are why I use my dishwasher!!! I have four boys and time is short, I cannot do everything and have to have some help sometimes. 

  • Melissa

    I have been running the “no dishwasher” experiment for 20+ years (8 of which I have had with all 4 of my kids).  So we have tons of dishes to wash daily.

    I think a dishwasher would be extremely helpful in my case. But we have obviously gotten by without one.  The kids are helpful with it.

    In my case, washing by hand causes more counter clutter (I have a tiny kitchen).   

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  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_IK6PQJDVWPLRJVYASLO4GAEN34 Mrs.

    We put a dishwasher in when we bought the house because the empty space looked ridiculous and we thought we would love having the machine. We are a family of 5 and until recently hadn’t even had a dishwasher in our business (catering) we have used the washer maybe twice? One Christmas. It is spotless after 3 1/2 years. We wash as we go, the kids take turns to help wash, dry and put away after the meal, we keep the minimum number of dishes in the cupboard and prefer to have the space around us. I certainly wouldn’t consider running it more than once a day to keep the number of dishes down. My parents have cupboards full of spare plates and mugs, and when on their own would wait a couple of days to fill the machine requiring a huge number of mugs just for 2 people. I can’t imagine we would use one again. I guess it depends what you choose to do in your down time and what we would do with the time if we weren’t all chatting together in the kitchen/family room.

  • Sigi

    I’ve only ever lived in a house with a dishwasher for two out of my 40+ years, when I house-shared with someone who already had one. I hated loading and unloading it, hated listening to it chugging away endlessly during the evening, hated how things often came out less clean than if I’d washed them by hand, I *hate* the smell of dishwashers (every one I’ve ever tried just stinks), I simply hate using the things.  I far prefer quickly rinsing and washing dishes by hand. Don’t want one in my kitchen, would far rather use the space for storage.

    I’m with you, Joshua!

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  • Lynne

    I refuse to use a dishwasher or a clothes drier as I believe they are totally unnecessary. It takes 10 or so minutes to wash a load of dishes. One washes and one dries and it is great 1-on-1 time. Dishwashers use so much water and power that it is bordering on criminal (in my opinion) to use them when our planet is so under seige from mankind’s abuse. I want my children and grandchildren and future descendants to live in a world where water is still freely available and clean.

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  • Caroline Vidican

    Almost everyone disagrees with you! I live in France. Water is expensive. Modern dishwashers hardly use any water – mine uses 8 litres for the whole cycle. You can run 8 litres down the drain just washing a saucepan (which rarely fits into a plastic washing bowl). No dishes training around my kitchen, everything goes straight in the machine and I wash at night. Or in the evening. Modern dishwashers are also virtually silent, so it’s not even a disturbance! No, no, a dishwasher every time for me!

    • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life…Your Way

      Actually, if you read the comments, it’s a pretty even split between people who love their dishwasher and people who love to hand wash, with valid arguments on both sides!

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  • KeepTalkin

    One of my favorite memories of growing up is holidays, when my aunts would help  with kitchen clean up after  dinner, chatting while washing and drying  dishes. Great family time.
     I wash by hand now, because the dishwasher leaves a milky coating on my dishes. I use plastic wash basins  for washing and rinsing. I heat a pot of water on the stove to add hot water, instead of running the water to get it hot.When done, I carry the basins outside and throw the  water on my garden or lawn.

    • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life…Your Way

      I do think there’s a very “homey” feel that comes from washing dishes by hand!

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  • Shortievaughn

    I have a dishwasher.  We have a love-hate relationship.  He loves to make me jump through hoops, I hate the half washed dishes.  I will dutifully rinse each dish and load the dishwasher just the way he likes for “optimal” cleanliness. Buy the better soap because he is finicky. Wait until off-peak time to run him through his many cycles.  If I am very lucky half my dishes will be clean in the morning!  I have had it.  I have been happily married for 17 years and though I love my husband very much, I am not quite sure that he receives as much attention as the dishwasher.  The dishwasher may use less water.  However, it uses more electricity than hand washing. The cost for the dishwasher detergent that is not multi-purpose is outrageous. The time spent on this relationship is ridiculous.  Thank you for this article.  I am giving up on my dishwasher.

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  • Christy

    This article made me laugh!!!  This is an argument that a friend of mine and I get into all the time.  He washes all her dishes by hand and I use the dishwasher.  Her reasoning is that if she uses the dish washer her dishes will pile up in the sink.  Which always surprises me because the only times I have had that issue in my life is when I did NOT have a dish washer!!!

    It’s amazing how different we can be and what works for who!  Good article!

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